Eating disorders and self-harm

About a quarter of people with anorexia or associated eating disorders deliberately harm themselves.

The most common way of self-harming is cutting with a sharp object. People may also burn themselves, pull out their own hair and take dangerous amounts of medication, drugs or alcohol.

Why do people with eating disorders self-harm?

Self-harm is a way of dealing with difficult and painful feelings which build up inside. Eating disorders use food to express emotions which they are unable to cope with. Self-harm can be another form of dangerous behaviour expressing inner pain and unhappiness.

Some people who self-harm say they feel anger or tension bottled up inside which is released when they hurt themselves.

Many people who self-harm have feelings of guilt or shame which they find hard to bear. Self-harm is a way of punishing themselves.

People with eating disorders take comfort in rituals, even though these rituals hurt their physical well being, because they provide a sense of control. Self-harm can be another ritual, along with other dangerous behaviour such as laxative abuse, over exercising, vomiting and food denial.

The effects of self-harm

There are clearly physical dangers of self-harm. Many people are taken to hospital each year for emergency treatment because of deliberate self-harm. There can be permanent damage to skin and internal organs.

There is also the impact upon mental health. Self-harm is carried out in secret, isolating the sufferer. They are likely to be involved in other eating disorder behaviours which also isolate them from family and friends.

This can lead to deeper depression, fueling the patterns of self-harm and dangerous behaviour towards food. The sufferer is unable to deal with stress or painful feelings in any other way.

Getting help for self-harm

Self-harm of any type is a dangerous form of behaviour which will be taken seriously by health professionals. Understanding of self-harm has improved greatly in recent years and a GP, school nurse, teacher or other adults responsible for young people will be able to refer sufferers to professional help.

Effective treatment involves understanding the feelings which make the sufferer want to self-harm and find other ways of coping with those feelings.

A person with an eating disorder who also self-harms needs to have an integrated programme of treatment which addresses the cause of all of their dangerous behaviours. If you, a friend or family member are affected, it is best to discuss needs and appropriate treatment with a GP.

Outpatient clinic

We have an outpatient clinic for adults as well as young people, treating eating disorders including bulimia and binge eating disorder.

Our outpatients’ clinic remains open, including to new requests for advice and support. We are following the Department of Health and Public Health England Coronavirus guidelines and all our consultations are being conducted by video conference or telephone. You are welcome to contact us to discuss your needs. Please be assured, we continue to support and offer outpatient programmes via digital and telephone communications.

Find out more about our outpatient clinic

Eating disorders help: our services in London and York

Newbridge House is part of the Schoen Clinic group, 26 high quality hospitals and services across Germany and the UK. Schoen Clinic Chelsea provides private outpatient and day treatment for adults, adolescents and children with eating disorders, anxiety and depression. You can self-refer to our service in Chelsea. Additionally, Schoen Clinic York is an adult inpatient service for adults with eating disorders and complex personality disorders.